Difficult Monday with consolations

Steamy heat after rain, the car battery of the housemate’s  bashed-up  vehicle gone flat overnight, silky  fruit wasps  crawling around  kitchen  surfaces. I wander back and forth with a copy of Lydia Davis’ translation of Proust’s Combray in one hand, lost in that  labyrinthine masterpiece. My blind eye swollen with recurring glaucoma that may ease by evening. The dogs follow me  around, not bothered in the least by my temporary abstractedness. For lunch I shall make something to eat with two  stray  mushrooms, a cupful of lentils and a bunch of fresh coriander.

2013 is apparently The Year of Reading Proust.

 

“I dream of lost
vocabularies that might express some of what
we no longer can.”

—  Jack Gilbert, from “The Forgotten Dialect of the Heart” via the Tumblir A la recherche du temps perdu

Conflict. The  garden services  manager explains to me in Afrikaans that he wants to  spray  insecticides on the weedier corners of the garden.

‘No,’ I say, and won’t  discuss this. Dead birds,  poisoned chameleons, contaminated water trickling down to the roots of my trees, a silent spring.

The housemate wants to donate her body to medical research. No coffin, no cremation, just a memorial service.

‘Fine,’ I say, and  won’t talk about the housemate dying one day, it must never happen while I am still alive, unbearable thought.

 

Never mind, there is Proust along with earthy lentils for lunch. And the cherry-pie violet scent of  heliotrope drifting in through the window.

“But when from a long-distant past nothing subsists, after the people are dead, after the things are broken and scattered, taste and smell alone, more fragile but more enduring, more unsubstantial, more persistent, more faithful, remain poised a long time, like souls, remembering, waiting, hoping, amid the ruins of all the rest; and bear unflinchingly, in the tiny and almost impalpable drop of their essence, the vast structure of recollection.”

 

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6 comments to Difficult Monday with consolations

  1. Difficult morning indeed, but glad the Proust is coming along. I have a question for you about writing, and specifically, about the role that receiving feedback from others plays. But I’ll pose it on my own blog so as not to clutter up your comments. Sending well-wishes on your eye. I hope it is not too painful.

  2. Syd says:

    Talking of death is something that we have been avoiding for a day now. I like to think about life and its robustness, bursting forth in buds that are forming here. Spring is coming–another season rolling round. And the greens of it will make my heart ache because it is so beautiful.

    • Mary LA says:

      In your situation right now Syd there are too many reminders of death and loss — I like what you said about life and its robustness. Take care, my friend

  3. just discovered your blog. love your style. i look forward to reading your interaction with proust!

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