Talking ’bout my generation

The most surprisng moment for  me yesterday was sitting on the other side of the world watching Malia Obama walk out with her father onto the stage and  seeing how tall and  mature  this little girl looked. Nearly old enough to vote herself, and part of a  new generation post-9/11, another kind of generation. The young ones to whom the future belongs. I thought of the son of a close friend of mine, a little boy who has  grown up in the course of a year,  suddenly taller than his mother and  able to  think for himself, make up his own mind, choose his own path through life. Generational shift is  hard to describe because it is such a bitter-sweet moment for many and especially when it coincides with political change.

I kept thinking back to my own generational  moment. Every once in a while in life you do feel the ground shift beneath your feet and know  something irrevocable and final has happened. Way back in September, 1989, I was  walking through Cape Town in a vast crowd of protesters, a rally to end apartheid. It was a bright spring morning in the southern hemisphere and  yet again we had gathered to protest more  detentions without trial and  governmental racism. Further down the street there were police ahead of us firing water cannons. The water had been dyed purple so those  in the march could be identified and arrested afterwards. All public gatherings of a political nature were illegal in those days.

As we walked, people began to stream out of offices,  out from restaurants and shopping malls to join us. Despite the  armed  police,  water cannons and  military vehicles,  the crowd was laughing and  we just kept walking as more and more  people came out to join us, students,  businessmen,  shoppers,  street cleaners,  even some of the police lining the streets. The crowd kept growing: mothers were pushing   small children in prams, schoolchildren were joining us, cyclists and  taxi drivers.

We knew that political  talks were taking place behind the scenes and that the dismantling of apartheid had begun. But  we hadn’t felt anything like this ever before, a crowd swelling, unstoppable, a movement that was unafraid.  I remember looking around at  the faces  in the crowd and  knowing in my heart and guts that  it was finally over, that we were not afraid any longer, that the  grey-faced  white men in parliament had lost and there would be  no going back.

That knowing  was scary because we had no idea what the future would hold and change is never easy. Unlearning racism is the work of a lifetime and  building trust between former enemies is hard, hard work. But my generation had  come into power,  the scruffy  outspoken students and activists, the poor, the marginal,  ridiculed so often as immature and unrealistic or labelled godless, immoral Communists. We had  named apartheid as evil and  the truth had become apparent. It wasn’t as if all the truth was on our side, it wasn’t as if human rights is a simple matter. But the ground under our feet had  shifted and for better or worse we were moving into unknown territory. My generation had come of age.

On September 2 1989 anti-apartheid protesters marching on Parliament were stopped by police near this spot. They mounted an impromptu sit-in and police retaliated with tear gas, batons and a new weapon: a water cannon laced with purple dye to stain demonstrators and make them easier to identify and detain. As protesters scattered, one climbed onto the armoured vehicle with the cannon and turned the purple jet on police. Purple dye stained most of the surrounding buildings, including the National Party headquarters and the white-washed walls of the historic Old Townhouse. The next day graffiti all over the city proclaimed “The Purple Shall Govern”. This was one of the last protest marches outlawed by the apartheid government. Eleven days later, 30 000 people marched through the city without police intervention.

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20 comments to Talking ’bout my generation

  1. Barbara says:

    I remember this well! My eldest daughter has just turned 18, a personal milestone moment. In 1989 I was 20, seems like only yesterday.

  2. Grace says:

    This an incredible piece of history and inspiration for us all. Prejudice isn’t always so easy to spot and even though we have come a long way here the need to have someone to look down on is alive and well.

    But change moves on like it or not and it is uncomfortable for those that cling to the good old days. There is no such thing there hasn’t been time in history when something terrible wasn’t happening somewhere to someone.

    We live in our own bubbles and this is how we survive until something affects us personally and then we grow like it or not.

  3. Allyson says:

    That is an amazing story, and an amazing experience. Thanks so much for sharing!

  4. Rhonnie says:

    I hope the next generation will grow up knowing how hard it was for their grandparents/parents generation to get here. A couple of years ago, we traveled on highway 10 through Louisiana, Mississippi area. I just could not help not thinking if it had been in the 50s, 60s, we would have been stopped many many times, because we are not white. We were stopped actually once because my husband was driving not far enough from the car in front of us (my husband is a very safe driver and we were about two or three car length behind.) So we still have a lot of work to do. Your statement is very true. “Unlearning racism is the work of a lifetime.”

    • sswl says:

      I drove in a car of both black and white civil rights workers from South Carolina to Atlanta in 1965. We got stopped five times, and left people in small town jails along the entire route, then, when we’d gotten some money, had to go back and pay their way out. The jails were always the biggest buildings in town (and the sheriffs probably the richest!).

      • Mary LA says:

        That struggle was bitter Susan and it is good to be reminded of what it was like and why there is no going back. We had similar problems with bail when we were arrested!

    • Mary LA says:

      Rhonnie I do believe future generations will come to understand and appreciate the struggle for civil liberties and full human rights and then the battle to eradicate racist prejudices. But I suspect the same struggles will need to be fought over and over again. You know, your story about riding through Louisiana reminds me of how many black people would only travel through the Free State and Transvaal at night for fear of being stopped and attacked. But what stayed with people most were not the gross injustices but what was called ‘petty racism’, the name-calling and contemptuous disrespect black people met with every day of their lives in shops and workplaces and schools or universities. That is as unforgivable as legislation or exclusion.

  5. Syd says:

    I think that the majority of people spoke in this country to say that it does not need to be ruled by white middle-aged men. I am glad that you did your part, along with many others, to end apartheid. We still have much work to do in this country from reading the hate filled comments by many. But other voices are drowning out those who snarl their hatred.

    • Mary LA says:

      Syd, change is always hard for those who fear Otherness — much of the bigotry against black and Hispanic voters comes from people afraid of having to share privilege — that was part of the fears felt in the old South Africa. And that idealising and/or loathing a President because of the colour of his skin is part of the unreality that prevents people seeing what is possible and what obstructionism blocks. But change is unstoppable and change is happening –

  6. sswl says:

    Wonderful to get your first-hand experience, Mary–and that incredible photo. You give a very vivid picture of what it’s like to be part of a movement that changes the landscape.

    • Mary LA says:

      Susan, your stories too are filled with struggle and hope — and the long years of getting nowhere in a racist South Africa made the eventual success all the sweeter.

  7. DeeGriffen says:

    Thanks for sharing this story what an incredible event to witness.

  8. I remember watching this moment from across the planet. It still makes me feel goose-bumpy all over. I was youngish and in love, and it seemed that the world had finally set its feet on the right path.

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